and when will my "all that" fade?

lagi-lagi hanya ingin share quote yang menurut gue sangat sangat memorable.
watched it two days a go on transtv, the holiday is one of my favourite movie! :)
bukan cuma karena jude law yang main siiih walaupun jujur aja itu daya tarik utama dari film ini hahahaha.
anway here's the quotes:

miles (jack black) : "why am i attracted to a person i know isn't good?"
iris (kate winslet) : "i happen to know the answer to this. because you're hoping you're wrong. and every time she does something that tells you she's no good, you ignore it. and every time she comes through and suprises you, she wins you over, and you lose that argument with yourself, that she's not for you."
miles : "exactly, and on top of that there's the old standby, i can't believe a girl like that would actually be with a guy like me."
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iris : "what i'm trying to say is i understand feeling as small and as insignificant as humanly possible. and how it can actually ache in places you didn't know you had inside you. and it doesn't matter how many new haircuts you get, or gyms you join, or how many glasses of chardonnay you drink with your girlfriends, you still go to bed every night going over every detail and wonder what you did wrong or how you could have misunderstood. and how in the hell for that brief moment you could think that you were that happy. and sometimes you can even convince yourself that he'll see the light and show up at your door.
and after all that, however long all that may be, you'll go somewhere new. and you'll meet people who make you feel worthwhile again. and little pieces of your soul will finally come back. and all that fuzzy stuff, those years of your life that you wasted, that will eventually begin to fade."

cheers :)